I’m always dreaming of water the colour of turquoise, sand as white as snow, and to walk upon the shore and watch the waves gently roll into greet it over and over again. It’s my bliss that inspires my creativity and grounds me from the crazy, busy, technological, high stress life that we lead. I feel immensely blessed I moved to WA, where I get to experience a little of this holiday vibe every single day.
Even still there is a definite yearning within me to roam into the wild, chase waterfalls, hike mountains and explore the earth and all her hidden treasures. It’s been many years since I’ve done this. I miss all the long road trips exploring hot springs, national parks, camping under the stars by ancient trees, bathing naked in icy glacial waters, cooking food over the fire, travelling anywhere on a whim and probably the best part – connecting with amazing, inspiring people along the way. I yearn for more exploration and I’m working on releasing myself from any self imposed boundaries that have been getting in the way. Being a parent comes with such great responsibility, and we can often feel so much fear for the safety of our children, and even limit our very existence. I’m discovering as I get a little older and wiser, the more I trust in the process of life, the more I am able to really enjoy travelling with my kids. It’s so wonderful to connect with your child’s unique way of perceiving the world. They see all the beauty around us, all the magic. They help us to see our world in the most joyful way. I’m very excited for new adventures with my family, and to share my love of exploration with them. Next stop – beautiful Bali!
I’ve been asked a lot recently from many of you amazing souls following and sharing in my journey about how I found a life of love. I want to share a little of my journey with you all in the hopes that I can inspire you to rediscover your beauty and the shining light of love that you all are.
Firstly, I think that we generally only start to question what is going on when things are not so great. It is these low experiences in our lives that act as the catalysts for transformation. I look back now with pure gratitude for the pain and traumas I have been through in my life. I would not have strived for a life of love without them.
My real low was around 7 years ago, when I experienced complications with my second pregnancy. It all began one night, around 11 weeks in, when I woke up haemorrhaging. I started having contractions, went into shock, and realised that I was losing my child. I was rushed to hospital to discover my little boy was still alive. For the next 27 weeks of my pregnancy I was in and out of hospital, the doctors continuously trying to prevent an early labour. I had to learn to cope with the imminent threat of losing him with no certainty or assurances. I was told the odds were not in my favour, and to prepare myself for the most painful of possibilities. That one hope, that I might make it to term, however dim it was back then, was the light that helped me get through. The painful thoughts of ‘what if’ were so excruciating while I felt my little boy kicking around in my belly. I inevitably pulled myself inwards and focused intently on the beauty of each moment we had together and that he would be ok. I could no longer focus on my painful feelings and give rise to them as they didn’t serve any other purpose than to cause me immense suffering. They weren’t real in that moment, they were just possibilities of an unknown future. I decided (stubbornly) we were going to get through it and that I would endeavour to enjoy the beautiful connection between mother and child regardless of the physical pain I was in. We would make this journey together and hope for the best. These thoughts brought me peace and the ability to find some joy in a pregnancy full of complication. I don’t think any other life experience has taught me more about mind control than this. Living with this for 27 weeks, bed bound each day, bleeding and contracting, reminded how fragile this situation was, yet striving for strength by surrendering to the vulnerability and uncertainty, whilst trying to maintain a positive outlook, was the biggest challenge of my life. I’m happy to say we made it in the end. We managed against medical odds to get to 38 weeks and my beautiful son is now 6 years old.
This experience changed me in many ways. My ability to let go of stressful ‘what if’ thoughts is much easier. I can focus on the beauty of life amidst chaos, and I discovered that the more you focus on the good stuff, and not the bad stuff, the more the bad stuff will actually lose it’s power and start to disappear from your life. Whatever you spend your time thinking about will become your life. So think beautiful thoughts, kind thoughts, grateful thoughts, loving thoughts, joyful thoughts. And when life throws you a curveball, I hope that you can remember at some point to be easy on yourself, and find that light and love within that allows you to move through it with grace and ease.
Some days I love nothing more than a simple white maxi and a few crystal jewels, bare feet in the sand, salt on my skin and to dance upon the sand as the ocean rolls in and kisses the shore over and over again. It sets my spirit soaring and evokes that mermaid vibe I love so much.
This beautiful afternoon I had the pleasure of wearing some gorgeous designs, made with love and passion, from the divine Her Empire boutique. A magical, bohemian inspired one stop shop perfect for the travelling gypsies, the magic makers, the wild dreamers and all those who seek something unique and inspiring. Beautiful owner, Aly, draws together passionate creative designers to bring forth a stunning collection of designs for all the bohemian babes wanting something that you just can’t find in your shopping mall. It’s so refreshing to discover so many interesting designs that spark my creative fire and allow me to style, play and create magic. I hope you guys find some magical pieces too that remind you of how amazing and wonderful you all truly are.
You guys asked and here it is….my hair, skin and nails post and how I create my look. I’ve been obsessed with beachy blonde boho hair, tanned skin and white nails for as long as I can remember. It’s a style that just screams summer holidays to me and makes my everyday feel like a holiday…even when I’m running errands and taking care of my 2 kids.
Starting with HAIR. My amazing hairdresser, Charlie, from The Nest Hair Boutique, creates my blonde locks and keeps them healthy each time we lighten them using Olaplex treatments and the amazing Davines Melu range of hair products. The Melu serum is probably the best hair product I’ve ever used. Any slight frizz or dryness and this glides on smoothly without weighing my hair down or making it feel oily. I love this product more than any other hair serum I’ve ever used. Hands down the BEST!
To add volume and extra length Charlie uses BLAKK Tape Extensions which fit in so naturally and seamlessly with my hair that they are hardly noticeable. They are also so lightweight, easy to manage and create more of that mermaid look I’m obsessed with ;)
I style my hair using either my GHD (great for mermaid waves) or my Babyliss from The Nest Hair Boutique (perfect for voluminous curls). Once I’m done curling my hair, I rub a tiny amount of the serum through my hair to finish the style. Too easy. Read more from a recent post about this wonderful boutique salon that has brought health and vitality back to my hair and happiness to my heart.
Ok now for my SKIN secrets. I get a lot of comments about my skin. From my tan to the glow of my skin. I must say that dry skin brushing and a hydrating diet (water, lots of alkaline foods, veggies, fruit) go a long way to keeping my skin glowing and healthy. Apart from that I do have some little tricks I use to enhance my skin’s glow. I’m obsessed with exfoliation and then lathering on body lotions. Lately it’s been even easier with this amazing smoothing body oil mist. Spray and you are done. So perfect for dry skin after consecutive days spent in the salty ocean.
As for my tan, firstly I don’t spend hours baking in the sun to achieve a tan. I tan very easily from simply living a healthy outdoors lifestyle, where I spend small amounts of time in the sun at the beach each day. To enhance my colour I use J Bronze self tanning mousse, as I have found this has the most natural colour of all the self tanners I’ve tried. It also goes on so effortlessly once you have exfoliated and keeps my colour just how I like it. I start with the medium early in summer and then switch to the dark as my tan darkens. When I have events and photoshoots, I use the J Bronze Illuminiser to add a golden glow to my skin. I am quite obsessed with this shimmer. It makes my skin look completely flawless. It also adds more bronze, darkening the colour. I feel completely transformed into a sun kissed goddess when I wear this. For my face I use the J Bronze Flawless Face tan. It’s gentle and doesn’t increase the colour dramatically, so I feel very confident using it. I’m still working on improving my facial routine and make up ritual so these details will be in another post once I’ve finished testing out new products.
And lastly my NAILS. I’ve finally moved away from the days of constant shellac and acrylic appointments and let my nails grow naturally now. They break every now and then, and they are often different lengths, but when I get spare time (amidst being a busy mum and blogger!) I give myself mini manicures at home as a little pampering treat. I’ve also recently made the switch to an eco friendly, vegan nail polish brand called Willow Byron Bay. I wasn’t sure at first whether the colour would last or how the quality would be, but after many months of use I’m absolutely converted and hooked on how much better these polishes are than the regular brands I used to use. And NO NASTIES! I don’t wear anything else anymore. Their white (winter) is the best. I simply can’t get enough :) The soy based nail polish remover is amazing too. It leaves your nails feeling moisturised instead of stripped and smells like lemon myrtle. You won’t smell that nasty chemical smell you normally get when you open up a bottle of this nail polish remover. TIP – Let this sit on your nails for a minute before trying to rub off otherwise you will need a little bit of elbow grease ;) I also highly recommend using the base and top coat when applying these polishes. Though not necessary, it will make your colour last longer. When I’m not being lazy and I do the whole lot, I manage almost a week with my colour in tact. Doing crazy busy mum stuff each day, that is quite the miracle ;)
Hope this post has been helpful in some way. And you guys find some products that you love as much as I do. I find taking care of the little things, like my hair, skin and nails, is a good way of showing myself a little love and nurturing.
Nails (Winter) – Willow Byron Bay – Use discount code GYPSYLOVINLIGHT at checkout
My simple summer basics are light, bright, easy, stylish and comfortable. I’m living in white washed denim and Rue Stiic everything this summer. Perfect basics to layer some divine jewels upon. Here is one of my favourite easy, casual summer looks, along with some bright silver and opal jewels from At Thursday.
Nails (Harmony) – Willow Byron Bay – Use discount code GYPSYLOVINLIGHT at checkout
“The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your action will be” Dalai Lama
This new year has been an awakening for me. It was as though by staying up all night long and seeing that sun rise in the sky, some ancient knowledge within my soul stirred and ignited. I have been feeling so alive, vital, so deeply in love with life. Each day brings more joy, freedom and inner love.
With the moon ripe and full I’m shedding some of the heavy and setting some light loving positive intentions to take even greater care of my being. To find more balance with my work, family and time for myself. I was recently reminded of that Jack Johnson song “Breakdown” and hearing this song again was pure happiness to me. It reminded me how much I love moving slowly through life, taking everything in to it’s fullest, and exploring the richness and beauty of each moment we are blessed with. There is no need to control anything, just surrender, trust and flow with the divine. Reach out from your comfort zone and experience all that life has to offer.
There’s nothing quite like watching the sun rise for the first time on a new year! That radiant light just seems that little bit brighter and lighter and full of endless possibilities. As I felt the first light of 2015’s sun shine upon me I was completely overwhelmed with excitement for all that is to come. And simultaneously so content after an amazing night of belly laughs and connections with my dearest family and family. It was a wonderful moment of pure happiness.
I didn’t actually make any new year resolutions this year. I’ve spent each day of 2014 practicing the art of refining my lifestyle, my thoughts, questioning my beliefs and bringing more love and light to my being each and every day. As the sun rose I simply gave myself a metaphorical pat on the back, a heart felt thank you for taking better care of myself this year. I know I will only continue to expand my heart in 2015 and journey on this path of self love.
It’s been a wonderful year of fulfilling many of my dreams and watching it all unfold before me. I feel such immense gratitude for all the love and support I have received from my beautiful family, friends, work colleagues and cyber community. Thank you to all of my blog followers for the time you take to follow my journey and the beautiful messages you send me.
I leapt into holiday mode a little earlier this year and took off down south to Bunker Bay a couple of weeks ago. On the way we stopped off at the divine Milc Homewares in the heart of Dunsborough to check out their amazing store. It was so refreshing to see so many labels I love all in the one place. It’s such a beautiful store run by a beautiful inspiring woman.
If you are lucky enough to live down that way, or are headed down for the holidays, show some local love and check out Milc. And for those who are far away, head to www.milchomewares.com for a great collection of clothing and accessories. You’ll find some of my absolute favourites like Spell and Free people and one of my new faves Bassike. These Bassike organic cotton shorts I’m wearing in these pics are the most comfortable and versatile shorts I own. So many styling options!!!
Hope you all have the most amazing holidays ever! I’m so excited for some down time with my family, summer sunsets at the beach and lazy days by the pool.
“Do not be afraid to shine your light. It is a beacon for those lost in the dark, a reminder of the way home”
This post is dedicated to all the beautiful souls out there who have journeyed to the light this past week, and to their loved ones who are grieving their loss. I’m sending a whole lot of loving vibrations out to all who need it right now. It’s been a pretty sad news week, both in our home and in our world. We all need so much love and light.
Warm hugs, kind words, peaceful vibes, offerings of love….first aid essentials to help heal the wounds of the heart.
In an effort to stay healthy in mind, body and spirit, and cope with the fast pace of the silly season, I recently decided to have a mini pre xmas escape to take some time out to unwind and centre myself. We headed off on a little road trip down south to the magical turquoise paradise aka Bunker Bay.
We spent two very peaceful days at the lovely Pullman resort right on the beach. Walking out in the morning to see such vibrant blue waters and white sands was nothing short of magical. Such a short drive from Perth and yet we felt a million miles away. It was so refreshing and the perfect romantic escape for Bobby and I. My love cup has been filled to the brim and I was left feeling relaxed and recharged.
I hope you all get the chance to take some precious time out for yourselves. Especially when you feel overwhelmed. It’s amazing what a couple of days can do to relax your entire being. And also how efficient we can become with our time once we are refuelled. I managed to get a whole lot more work done once I was in the right head space.
I hope you all have the most relaxing and wonderful holidays!! I’m so excited for Christmas next week and the possibilities of the new year!!!!